Being answerable to God and at least one other
person for my behavior.
ALERTNESS: Being keenly aware of the events
taking place around me so that I can have the right responses to them.
AMENDS (Repentance): Humbly acknowledging how
you have fallen short of God's standard and seeking His forgiveness to
make things right.
ATTENTIVENESS: Showing the worth of a
person or task by giving my undivided concentration and effort.
AUTHENTICITY: Being exactly who you claim
to be with honesty and transparency.
AVAILABILITY: Making my own schedule and
priorities secondary to the wishes of those I serve.
Giving to others’ basic needs without expectations of personal reward.
Demonstrating the confidence and courage that doing what is right will
bring ultimate victory regardless of present opposition.
BONDING: Connecting with one another in an
authentic way, avoiding unhealthy isolation.
BOUNDARIES: Creating a "safe place" or
limitations that protect me from potentially unmanageable temptation.
Having depth and broadness, in words and deeds, within the heart and
Exhibiting a kinship and disposition to render help because of a
Speaking the truth at the time when the truth should be spoken.
Knowing to be alert in a hazardous or dangerous situation.
Expressing encouragement, approval or congratulations at the proper
Protecting the weak, the suffering and the neglected by maintaining
justice and rightness.
Devoting myself to following up on my words (promises, pledges or vows)
Investing whatever is necessary to heal the hurts of others by the
willingness to bear their pain.
Placing full trust and belief in the reliability of a person or thing.
Following constantly the same principles, course or form in all
circumstances; holding together.
Accepting myself as God created me with my gifts, talents, abilities
Fulfilling my responsibilities and standing up for convictions in spite
of being afraid.
Approaching a need, a task or an idea from a new perspective.
DECISIVENESS: Learning to finalize difficult
decisions on the basis of what is right, not on what's popular or
Limiting my freedom to speak and act in order to not offend the tastes
DEPENDABILITY: Fulfilling what I consented
to do even if it means unexpected sacrifice.
DETERMINATION: Working intently to
accomplish goals regardless of the opposition.
Visualizing each task as a special assignment and using all my energies
to accomplish it.
Seeking to use intuitive ability to judge situations and people;
understanding why things happen to me and others.
instruction and correction in a positive way; maintaining and enforcing
proper conduct in accordance with the guidelines and rules.
and avoiding words, actions and attitudes which could result in
Exercising inward strength to withstand stress and do my best in
managing what occurs in my life.
Expressing lively, absorbing interest in each task as I give it my best
(EQUITY): Looking at a decision from the viewpoint of each
Developing an unshakable confidence in God and acting upon it.
Being thorough in the performance of my duties; being true to my words,
promises and vows.
FEAR OF THE LORD:
Having a sense of awe and respect for Almighty God which goes above and
beyond anyone or anything else.
Exerting a tenacity of will with strength and resoluteness. A
willingness to run counter to the traditions and fashions of the world.
Learning how to cheerfully change plans when unexpected conditions
Clearing the record of those who have wronged me and not holding their
past offenses against them.
Coming alongside another person for mutual support and encouragement.
GENEROSITY: Realizing that
all I have (time, talents and treasures) belongs to God and freely
giving to benefit others.
Learning to respond to needs with kindness, personal care and love.
Abounding in joy, jubilation and cheerfulness.
Achieving maximum results toward the area where my effort is directed.
Having moral excellence and a virtuous lifestyle; a general quality of
GRATEFULNESS: Making known to others by my
words and actions how they have benefited my life.
Demonstrating an extraordinary capacity for achievement.
Being whole with no blemish or stain.
Proclaiming the truth with sincerity and frankness in all situations.
Respecting those in leadership because of the higher authorities they
Feeling that my deepest desire will be realized and that events will
turn out for the best.
Sharing cheerfully food, shelter and life with those with whom I come
Seeing the contrast between what is perfect and my inability to achieve
Channeling the driving passion of righteous anger without sinning.
Recognizing and doing what needs to be done before I am asked to do it.
Being whole and complete in moral and ethical principles.
JOYFULNESS: Choosing to be
pleasant regardless of outside circumstances, which ultimately lifts
the spirits of others.
Taking personal responsibility to uphold what is pure, right and true.
Demonstrating a gentle, sympathetic attitude towards others.
acquainted with facts, truths or principles through study and
Guiding others toward a positive conclusion.
Having a deep personal attachment and affection for another person.
Using difficult times to demonstrate my commitment to others or to what
Yielding my power, personal rights and expectations humbly with a
desire to serve.
Staying within established boundaries and limits.
NURTURE: Caring for the physical, mental
and spiritual needs of others.
Fulfilling instructions so that the one I am serving will be fully
satisfied and pleased.
Confident, hopeful and never doubtful.
Learning to organize and care for personal possessions to achieve
Creating “new” thinking, ideas and expanding truths from an independent
Having an intense, powerful or compelling emotion and feelings towards
others or something.
Accepting difficult situations and without demanding a deadline to
PEACEFUL: Being at rest with
myself and others.
PERSEVERANCE: A continuing effort to do or
achieve something despite difficulties, failure and opposition.
PERSUASIVENESS: Guiding another’s mental
roadblocks by using words which cause the listener’s spirit to confirm
the spoken truth.
Being totally balanced in mind, body and spirit.
PRAYERFUL: Communing with
God spiritually through adoration, confession, thanksgiving and
PROSPERITY: Flourishing or
being successful, especially pertaining to financial issues.
caution, humbleness and wisdom in regards to practical matters.
Showing respect for other people by respectfully using the limited time
PURE SPEECH: Speaking
words that are clean, spotless and without blemish.
Freeing yourself from anything that contaminates or adulterates.
determination to stay on track until the goal is achieved.
REASONABLENESS: Having a sound mind by
being level headed, sane and demonstrating common sense.
Restoration of strength through recovery and replenishment.
RESOURCEFULNESS: Using wisely that which
others would normally overlook or discard.
Getting a fresh start, or new beginning.
Honoring and esteeming another person due to deep admiration.
RESPONSIBILITY: Knowing and doing what is
expected from me.
Giving honor where it is due and respecting the possessions and
property of others.
in a moral and upright way that honors God, regardless of who is
Structuring my life around what is eternal and cannot be destroyed or
SELF-CONTROL: Bringing my
thoughts, words, actions and attitudes into constant obedience in order
to benefit others.
Being aware and attentive to the true attitudes and emotional needs of
those around me.
Caring for and meeting the needs of others before caring for myself.
Endeavoring to do what is right, without ulterior motives.
STEWARDSHIP: Administering and managing
personal and financial affairs effectively.
Having power, force and vigor for the task assigned.
Yielding to the authority, guidance and direction of God in my life.
Demonstrating a willingness to learn or be trained without any
reservations or hindrances.
deep gratitude and appreciation to people and to God.
THOROUGHNESS: Executing something perfectly
with the realization that each of my tasks will be reviewed.
THOUGHTFULNESS: Showing consideration for
others through acts of kindness and/or words.
Preventing myself or others from spending money unnecessarily.
Learning to accept others as valuable individuals regardless of their
TRANSPARENCY: Allowing others to shine a
light on my life for the purpose of being accountable.
TRUTHFULNESS: Earning future trust by
accurately reporting past facts.
or TRUSTWORTHY: Believing completely and totally
in someone or something.
Exhibiting strong intelligence and a sound mind in comprehending and
UNSTOPPABLE: The freedom to perform at your
highest level without any restraints.
Building personal moral standards which will cause others to desire a
greater moral life.
Dreaming not inhibited by the unknown. Looking beyond problems by
creating successful solutions.
VULNERABILITY: Being open to receive
constructive criticism and guidance.
WISDOM: Learning to see and
respond correctly to life situations with keen judgment; the
application of knowledge.
Honoring God reverently.
Adapted from several sources including
“Institute in Basic Conflicts” by Bruce Bickel; Character First!
program and “The Character of Jesus” by Charles Edward
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